Recently I had a conversation with some of my kids and they explained, a little apologetically, that they’re going to change one of our family traditions and make a new one of their own.
I think they thought it might hurt my feelings, but it cracked me up that they were even explaining the change to me.
Some of our traditions are serious and meaningful, but some are just for silly fun.
Proverbs 2:8 says “Remove not the ancient landmark, which your forefathers have set.” There’s a lot to be said for holding onto the good, and following family traditions in things that knit our hearts together, and keep us walking close to the Lord. John’s family stood in a little circle by the front door, and prayed together every morning of his growing up years. We have kept that tradition and I hope our kids will too.
But sometimes it’s meaningless, and even counterproductive to do things exactly the way they have always been done.
Frieda makes a beautiful cross rib roast, and she always prepares just like her mom always did.
Freddie loves to watch his wife put all the special seasonings on the roast, get it ready for the oven. Just like her mom did. He noticed that she always cut off the end of the roast and put it in the pan alongside the main roast. Just like her mom did. Tradition!
Finally last Christmas Freddie asked her, “Honey, why do you cut the end of the roast?”
“I don’t really know,” Frieda admitted, “Mom always did it, so I’m just doing it too.”
Now Frieda, herself, was curious. So after the roast was in the oven she called her mom and asked why she always cut the end off.
Oh,” her mom laughed, “I did that so it would fit in my roasting pan.”