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Adventures within The Crust!


Both Sides Now


I heard John singing in the kitchen as he did the dishes.

“I’ve paid my dues. Time after time.  I’ve done my sentence, but committed no crime. And bad mistakes – I’ve made a few. I’ve had my share of sand kicked in my face, but I’ve come through…”

What in the world???

gift wrapWe usually do the dishes together, but tonight I had asked him if he would do them while I finished wrapping the Christmas presents. He had seemed willing – even glad to do them…but now he was singing this unknown song full of angst.  “…it’s been no bed of roses. No pleasure cruise. I consider it a challenge before the whole human race, and I ain’t gonna lose.”

I walked the few steps into the kitchen. “What are you singing?”

QueenJohn grinned and brandished the dishtowel. “We are the champions – my friends. And we’ll keep on fighting till the end. We are the champions. We are the champions. No time for losers…’cause we are the champions of the world!”

Of course I had heard that chorus dozens of times, but I don’t think I ever listened to the verses. I was that very awkward young girl with my nose stuck in a book, sometimes listening to Simon and Garfunkel, or Chad and Jeremy.

Queen_GuinevereBack when John was going to see Queen in concert, the only queens I knew of were Guinevere and Galadriel, and some of their sisters who ruled England.

The dishes finished, John came and sat beside me on floor and pulled out his i-phone.

“Buddy you’re a boy make a big noise

Playing in the street gonna be a big man some day

You got mud on your face You big disgrace

Kickin’ your can all over the place


We will, we will rock you. We will, we will rock you.”

We sat watching Queen, followed by Kansas, Charlie Daniels Band, and Lynyrd Skynyrd.

I’ve always told John that when I was younger and he was cooler, I would have been so shy I would have walked across the street to avoid coming in contact with him and his very cool group of friends.

He would not have said anything mean or flirty (I don’t think). He was cool but he was also kind. The point is, he wouldn’t have paid any attention to me.

So John was busy being cool and hanging out, and I was busy being cautious and hiding out. But somehow we met in the middle.

“I’ve looked at clouds from both sides now,

From up and down, and still somehow

It’s cloud illusions I recall.

I really don’t know clouds at all.”

Okay Joni Mitchell, we’ve seen both sides now, and you were right. We really don’t know clouds. But we have learned that God had a bigger plan than either of ours. “I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

From one man he made all the nations, that they should inhabit the whole earth; and he marked out their appointed times in history and the boundaries of their lands. God did this so that they would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from any one of us.